Candles

In this increasingly busy society we find that there are more and more people craving for that which is missing in their lives. With high rate of divorce and family break downs it seems that many people are craving for love and happiness. Firstly you must have some interest in developing your life. This can vary depending on the person and their own expectations. For some happiness can be simplistic and fulfilling for others it is a range of complex items/conditions which can fill the need. It appears that many of us have a missing void in our lives.

You must also posses or at least be prepared to change your beliefs. You must believe that you deserve to be happy and receive love. Often people will say they deserve love after they have stated they will never receive. An example of this is as follows:

I am ready to have another relationship but I want this one to be full of love and respect. But because of my past record it does not look like that that will ever happen for me.

I must be destined to be unhappy even though I don't like it. It's just that everything that could possibly make me unhappy usually does.

I never win anything I'm just an unlucky person and my life is full of bad luck.

These and many other sayings are creating exactly what is being said. If you do not believe you deserve to be happy it will never happen.

The universe does not place any judgements on individuals. If you desire to be in a loving relationship or respected by family and friends it will be created but if you believe you will live a lonely and unfulfilling life that too will be created.

The following exercise in Candle Burning will assist you in producing that which you desire.

Begin by oiling the candle if you wish and commence visualising your desire for happiness and the love:

To assist with creating love and happiness you need to light an pink candle. Pink represents the colour of love, affection and romance. Burning this candle can bring love to you, assist you with becoming more loving and also includes all aspects of romance.
Be sure you are seated comfortably with no interruptions and clear your mind of any thoughts. To assist in the process you may wish to use some mediation techniques and concentrate on breathing slowly and fully for a few minutes. As your mind becomes clear, focus on the burning candle and begin to create your desire by picturing it in your mind. Focus on the important elements within your desire and say an affirmation that will enhance this process.

I am now a loving and caring person and deserve to have loving people around me.
b) I am now ready for a lasting and loving relationship with ________ and deserve to be happy.
c) I am now surrounded by love and happiness and will continue to attract this.

Continue to focus on your desire or desires and repeating your affirmations. Some people will find it difficult initially to remain focussed and not to allow the conscious mind to drift off. If this occurs clear your mind again of all thoughts and commence your ritual again.

Finally: Continue to focus on the desire as long as you feel is necessary and this will vary amongst individuals. But most important of all is to concentrate, focus and believe and you can invoke all the happiness and truly make it possible.