Should I buy my parents house? Options

[BaileyCatts]

My parents are starting to clean out the house they bought in 1983 when my family moved. I have my own house nearby, but have been thinking maybe I would sell my house and buy their house? Its a bigger, nicer house, and there would be no urgency for them to get it prepped for market. But I'm struggling with knowing I would be living in that big house all by myself and think I might be scared all the time. Does anyone get a feeling on if this would be a good decision to buy their house and sell mine?

[Dot]

Ohhh. I don't think so. If you want a new place I suggest you find your own place! Not a place your parents used to have or maybe you lived in before. Time to start fresh, I think.

It's funny because my family is in the process of selling their house, and it's all about clearing energy and starting with a new slate; buying your parents' house doesn't seem like doing that... I dunno, maybe I'm bias but it just doesn't sound like a good idea to me. Perhaps there is another place you can get; if you can't -see- one at the moment perhaps it will appear. In the end the decision is yours though.

[Thebigtheory]

i feel as though this big house will soon have 4 prescences in it (not spirits, people )

just my 2 cents

[Sparklyy]

My parents are starting to clean out the house they bought in 1983 when my family moved. I have my own house nearby, but have been thinking maybe I would sell my house and buy their house? Its a bigger, nicer house, and there would be no urgency for them to get it prepped for market. But I'm struggling with knowing I would be living in that big house all by myself and think I might be scared all the time. Does anyone get a feeling on if this would be a good decision to buy their house and sell mine?

I don't why,but I'm hearing a news brief about the housing markets,reverse morgages,and thinking that this may be a big step. I'm being reminded of my old friend Barb. She lived with her husband and daughter,and there parents house was maybe 2 streets over. She lost her mother,and the father moved,leaving the home empty. her husband was rarely home,he worked alot. Anyways,I lost touch with them I don't know why your post reminded me of that. She had a house full of cats,so maybe that's why. I would say you should consult a housing attorney. This could be a very good investment. I'm repeating what my guides are telling me...'wait though for the housing markets to go up in 010.' hope that was helpful -Sparklyy

[Victoria]

My parents are starting to clean out the house they bought in 1983 when my family moved. I have my own house nearby, but have been thinking maybe I would sell my house and buy their house? Its a bigger, nicer house...

The answer lies in your motivation. You said "it's a bigger, nicer house". Are there any other reasons?

If you had happy times there the energies should be positive -- I have a good feeling about this.

[Dot]

If you had happy times there the energies should be positive -- I have a good feeling about this. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

That's a good point! Happy vibes = good.

[ColorMySoul]

I agree with Victoria. As soon as I saw the topic, a bubbly (happy) little voice in my head said "Of course you should!!"

But I'm not very good with psychic things like this. lol

[Dot]

I agree with Victoria. As soon as I saw the topic, a bubbly (happy) little voice in my head said "Of course you should!!"

Yeah, I have a good feeling too. I just have prejudices. xD Oopsies...

[BaileyCatts]

Wow. Thanks for all your insights (and if anyone else senses anything please keep them coming!)

I am so conflicted about this. There are signs telling me yes and signs telling me no. My biggest issue is that the house is just so big (2100 square feet, 4 bedrooms, 2-story carriage house with full basement that itself has four separate, very big rooms), I feel a little like its just a little bit too big and I would not be able to take care of the house, even though I would love to live in a bigger house. Its a nice house, on a nice piece of property, my dad just remodeled a whole new kitchen, floors, carpet, a 1/2 bath; there's a great 3-season room to use in the summertime... its a great house, but I just don't know if I could live there alone.

The yard is so huge I know I would have to hire someone to handle that. I could always hire a cleaning service if that becomes too big an issue since basically I would only 'live' in the master bedroom, kitchen and family room, but its just the things like maintenance and upkeep of a big house .... I'm completely helpless with the mechanics of it all, if that makese sense. And the basement has a door for direct outside access.... I keep thinking I would be scared to death thinking somone broke in and was hiding down there (even though that has never happened) since the house would be empty 9 hours a day when I was at work.

Please keep anything you sense coming. I really appreciate your help!