hawaii
Mar 24 2008, 06:48 PM
Does anyone have any experience with this match?
I guess being a Capricorn male, it has taken me a while to get over me break up (over 4 years) But now I have set my eyes on on a Scorpio women (yes, like a moth to the flame).
And being a cautious cap I don't want to move to fast and show my hand.
I have known this women for over 8 years (she is recently divorced too) I have always fancied her, but not that we are both available I have I suggested that we go out, she always seem to shrug me off. But when I see her ( i only see her when she is at work) we alway have a good connection. As soon as i feel like I should forget about her she will drop a hint. She recently gave me her phone number, but when I call her she is always busy. But she seem to alway dangle the carrot in front of me. Is this a typical scorpio playing hard to get? Is this the game you need to play to get a scorpio women?
UPDATE. I did get the courage to ask her out for coffee, she replied in a nice way and said yes. She said she will call me.............someday.
Lickdafoot
Mar 25 2008, 07:58 AM
Hi Hawaii, I have to start by saying that it takes a lot more than someone's sun sign to know how a person will react to you. But as a general descritption, yes, Scorpio women do tend to play hard to get. She is probably still having a hard time getting over her divorce and I can see that she would be likely to shrug you off as a defence mechanism. But this does mean that she has feelings for you. Be open and honest with her, don't be scared to show her that you have feelings for her. Scorpio women also love to be swept off their feet and see vulnerability in people they are pursuing. I think it appeals to their emotional side. As a capricorn this might be hard for you to do! Take a chance! Open Up! Don't let your fears get the best of you! Show her the real you and how you feel! They are the type that are here to stay so it's great that you have known her for so long! Keep trying to pursue her; don't get discouraged if she seems to always make herself busy. go for it- have faith that it will work out =)