I feel I made a bad mistake ending a friendship! I feel terrible. This person meant so much to me. I wonder how he feels about all this! How should I contact him? Should I even apoligize or contact?
I am confused. Part of me wants to communicate...part of me wants to leave it and let him contact me!
What should I do?

Im not a psychic but if he hasn't already I think you should contact him. I've made that same mistake a long time ago and I still think about this person and how badly I feel about cutting all ties with him. He was a good friend to me. But I was young and naive back then and I wished I could take back what I said and did when I had the chance. If you feel that badly then I think you should call him otherwise you'll always have that on your head. Hope this helps.

Really think so?
Should I send him a funny picture? Like to make him laugh? If I say anything else I am afraid I will screw it up even more .

Whatever you do, just be honest.

ok! but if i get yelled at its your fault Dot LOL.

Yep, and then just be willing to accept whatever comes of it.

Okay I sent an email. Oh dear lord I am so nervous.

I really hope everything turns out well for you. Have you received a response yet?

Nope still waiting.
I think I will do a spread tarot about this situation since I am so lost and very sad. thanks.

oh... I am very sorry to hear that. maybe he's just surprised that you contacted him again, and isn't sure of how to respond?

i hope it works out well for you...

It'll work out. Be patient.

Ijust want to say too all, thanks so much for your thoughts. i lost some faith. its over now. after years of a wonderful friendship i realized its just over. i had a lot of hope to be honest. i am always been optimistic and positive but if one person is positive and the other isn't that will never lead to something good!

I had to cut all ties with a friend recently...(actually...two friends...and totally unrelated...) but what i have noticed since is that by "closing those doors" the universe was then able to open some others...and I have met more than 2 wonderful new people...It seems to have made room for a lot of good new things too...

so don't worry too much...send him love energy and have a little faith that it was for the best!

PG

I know how painful it can feel to lose a person who you've been connected to for years. I'm sorry that it happened the way it did for you, but I think it will do what it did for psychicgirl -- open up new, positive doors for you... and I really hope it does.

Actually, I do tarot readings for myself and I have other readers help interpret them for me. The cards say that he has tried to contact me. I even had dreams that he tried to phone me. (I changed my number recently to a new number.) The way I look at it, maybe its not the right time to be friends again, or maybe its meant to be like this. Maybe we should 'separate' to find other friends, who knows! Maybe we will bump in to each other in the future. I would like to believe that.

That would be really sweet, if he has tried to contact you. I really do hope you both will see each other again in the future, and become friends.

life is like a box of chocolates...
Just kidding.

honestly, you never said WHY you stopped being friends with him in the first place.

Whatever the reason I will share with you part of my personal beliefs...
I think it is unrealistic to think anyone will be in your life forever. People enter your life for various reasons and some are only in your life a few hours, others a few months, some for years, and a very VERY few may be lifelong friends. I went to college with someone who I thought would be a lifelong friend but when he moved away I let him go. We talked on the phone every now and then but eventually I just stopped. Another friend of min moved away but e still keep in touch. Why? The first friend and I were drifting so i let it go, the second friend is still my friend, just in another state.

I don't want to be the type of person who talks to a lot of people but isn't close to any of them.
If someone is meant to be in your life they will be. If not, then they won't. I try to take life as it comes and be flexible. trying to mold life into something it isn't meant to be is a doorway to unnecessary pain and strife...

With all that said, I'm not suggesting you give up on your friend. I'm suggesting you open yourself up to the idea that maybe this is whats best for you.
To quote Lao Tzu:
Misfortune is what fortune leans on;
Fortune is here misfortune conceals itself.
Who can know the ultimate result?

and i totally agree. and i now understand that its a painful lesson to learn. people come and go, relationships do not last forever. thats is why i have moved on.

I actually ended a 10 year friendship not too long ago. Sometimes we can't see it right away, but maybe this is for the best. If you want to contact him I say go ahead just don't expect much.