QUOTE (GypsyMama @ Aug 31 2009, 08:21 AM)

This isn't really advice, or insight, just... well, maybe clarification of what you're feeling. If I'm guessing or understanding right, the reading gave you information that hadn't even crossed your mind. It sounds like a good thing, but you know that in order for it to happen another good thing has to change, which would be said and possibly painful. This could easily lead to mixed feelings and confusion -- especially if she wasn't clear about the "who" in any of it.
I've been in a similar situation recently, except the "reading" was from myself. Anyway, the advice that was given to me was to decide what I really wanted and to focus on that. Did I want to keep my current situation, or did I want the new situation to come about (even though it would be years from now)? Whichever I wanted, if I focused on that, I would help it manifest.
I haven't managed to follow that advice very well, but the reason in my case is that I really feel like this particular situation is "out of my hands"... like it's something the souls directly involved agreed to long ago. So, what I've chosen to do instead -- and this is pretty close to the advice I got -- is to practice remaining present, in the moment, and stop trying to see what the future holds, at least in regards to this situation.
I mean, if it's in my hands... the alternative to what I have now looks like it would be nice, but not worth the pain I'd have to go through and cause for it to happen. So, then I'd remain focused on and appreciative of what I have now. However, if it's truly out of my hands, it doesn't matter what I focus on -- something's going to happen. So, it makes sense to me to focus on and appreciate what I have now, while I can. Either way what I do -- which is what I was worried about in the first place.... what do I do??? -- is the same.
I hope that helps somewhat, even if it's just knowing someone feels the same way (assuming I've guessed right! lol!).
~ Zan
oh very good. you know a friend friend of mine did a sort of clarification reading for me through her tarot cards and told me I must do something, not sit and wait for it to happen. to me it was a good reading yet sad. because my reading was about love. i cannot just sit and wait for love to find me, you know? so I have to act on it and the prediciton could come true if I act on it. but again as you say, focus on the present and be happy with what I have now. life is full of hellos and goodbyes. and painful endings.
as angel C pointed out she made sure bad things did not happen. i know we can change the future if we want, but sometimes i don't even know if that is true. my heart is very confused at the moment.
QUOTE (nigel @ Aug 30 2009, 09:13 AM)

I am 27 but maybe it will be 1 of those of relationships that will blossom quickly
Lol I am your age. I was once told too, many years ago I will marry at 27, and I am no where near marriage! I think 27ish is the average age for people to marry, so it was probably just a guess. Or she gave you, how do they say, a cold reading?