I am kind of starting a new path right now - sort of leaving behind a lot of old things, and it feels very cleansing and I'm feeling good about it, etc.!

I just thought I would post to see if anyone has any feelings/advice/ideas about this?

It feels to me like something that has been coming for a while but I also feel a bit apprehensive about the changes that are going to be taking place quite soon... new surroundings, new people, new work, etc.

In the past I haven't handled change so well...

but I think it is something I need at this time.

So, any feelings?

I think this is a change that you might be apprehensive about but also it will be easier because you are looking forward to it.By allowing yourself to let go of the past,you are opening the door for new growth internally.And that is a positive change.Love and light to you.

Okay, well I'm not Dot, but I've noticed she feels thing in her body. I've never noticed myself doing that before, so this could be coincidence, but while I was reading your post I got a sudden and strong pain on my left arm, a couple of inches below the elbow. Maybe Dot will know if that means anything. Hopefully, if it does, it'll go away soon -- it hurts! lol!

Darnit, the baby got up before I had a chance to get anything. I'll try again another time. Maybe Dot can help with the arm pain, which is totally gone now.

Good luck with all of it, regardless.

~ Zan

this whole years been that way too me lol
change is truely coming to us all i guess

I have advice - embrace change, ignore your fear of the unknown, and dwell on the edge of you as long as you can. The longer you ride the wave, the more you'll learn. Let go, laugh recklessly, and charge forward off the edge of the world!

I didn't pick up too much work related stuff but I did get a feeling of artistic ability or creativity from you. Maybe opening up your creative side will be beneficial in you future. I also agree with the advice about not fearing the future. Fear won't allow you to change anything anyways so it is pretty much as waste of time. Good luck with your new future, i think it will be a happy one

Did he propose?

You know the best course of action is pro-action instead of procrastination, there have been MANY and when I say MANY I mean MANY opportunities in your life that have presented themselves but you have chosen to procrastinate, as you are getting older now you know you don't have the luxury of time, so do yourself a favour and take a chance,

This will work out in your benefit if you do it wisely, don't just run off with some crazy idea about 'taking action', think it through logically and ask yourself what you want, hehe =)

It couldn't be that much easier =)

Tsk tsk "intuitive counsellor"...you were blocked for fishing for clients! I have one word for you: INTEGRITY!

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I had a feeling someone was going to ask that!

No, he didn't, in fact, we are kind of entering a rough time because I've moved (he actually did as well) and now we're about 6 (or something???) states apart. It's just a weird time I think because I admittedly don't really know what I want - well, I want him - but sometimes I think that maybe it would be good to take time for each of us to be with some others if we really are sure about each other (which I feel we are) - I also kind of think that me thinking about other guys means I just need to be single for a while (not that my heart doesn't belong to him!)

But... I keep thinking about or dreaming about or getting the word "engagement" lately... it is very strange

I have no plans to do that though as I am still too young !



Ironically this is pretty true - I sometimes beat myself up over the fact that I've had an abundance of opportunities and that I've mostly ignored or messed them up. BUT I also feel as though it's not too late...