By Jennifer Angel

True beauty is gained by feeling beautiful from the inside. Our true inner beauty is an angelic essence, which can be found by loving ourselves. Learning how to love unconditionally is the direct highway to connecting with our inner self and finding our own angelic essence.

Your inner angel is aligned to your heart and it’s how you feel, rather than how you think. It doesn’t matter how beautifully dressed or how clear your skin is on the outside, unless you feel beautiful on the inside, the outer beauty acts only as a mask. Once you develop your own inner angel, your outer beauty will be a reflection of your inner beauty. Jennifer says there is nothing you can do that doesn’t deserve love from the eyes of your inner heart. It’s our perception, which colors our world and it’s our perception, which says to us, were good, bad, beautiful, ugly, worthy or unworthy.

We can all be beautiful angels and be sharing, caring and nurturing to those we love. We can also be angry, niggly and bitchy, and generally afterwards we give ourselves a hard time, putting ourselves down for what we did or said. When really, if we took the time to look at our actions differently, we would see how being angry, niggly and bitchy can actually serve us. It may have shown that you can stand up for yourself. It could have illustrated to someone where you stand on an issue. It could have built a closer bond with someone, because you’ve felt comfortable enough to expose another part of yourself. Or perhaps you have taken control of your life. It may have actually achieved the result and outcome you were looking for. Sometimes being the nice guy all the time doesn’t get you what you want. There are all sorts of benefits, which may come out of your behavior. We all have every trait in one form or another. The challenge is to see how everything in life serves us.

Let’s take a simple thing like stress. Most people experience stress in one way or another. Even teenagers at school experience stress with exams. And because of the feeling of stress, it sends them into study frenzy. And with that extra intensity of study they have a better chance of achieving higher marks, which may determine where their future studies are going to be. If good ole stress was the catalyst in this then it is something to be thankful for.

By changing our perspective we can learn to look at the people, events and situations in our life differently and learn to love all aspects and character traits of others and ourselves. The key to loving yourself unconditionally is to see how everything you do, serves and benefits you in one way or another.

Life is never one-sided. There are always 2 sides to a story, and 2 ways of looking at everything. The law of balance says every positive has a negative, and every negative has a positive. So if we look carefully we will find the things in life we perceive to be good have drawbacks. It’s like the couples that have highly successful careers with financial security and a luxurious lifestyle, don’t have as much time to spend with the family unit. And the couples that have a lower income and less responsibility may have a simpler lifestyle but have more time and energy to spend with the family unit. Neither is right or wrong, they are different and both have drawbacks and benefits.

By developing a loving energy and seeing the blessings in life, is to be grateful for life itself. Then we can focus on the opportunities, not the problems. This is the angelic essence of love that shows your true inner beauty and gives you that outer glow that people just cannot help but comment on!

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