By Jennifer Angel

So where do you go from here? You’ve decided yes you want to take it further, but how much further is the question and how soon. The thing on your guys mind and prob the only thing on his mind is when can he get you into bed. Of course the girls want to do all the romantic stuff, and it’s not that guys don’t want to do the romantic stuff it’s just that they see it leading to sex and that’s their main mission.

Kissing
Let’s start with kissing. How compatible are you in the area of locking lips. This is the next step from flirting after you decide to date or take it further. Kissing is an extremely sensual act and there is certain etiquette to kissing. For instance most people like to close their eyes when they kiss and it’s all part of the kissing etiquette to close your eyes if your partner has their eyes closed. If you don’t close your eyes, it’s almost like you’re sneaking a peak when you’re not meant to and you’re spying on your partner when they’re not looking.

When you kiss someone and it’s a good kissing experience you get a feeling of excitement. There’s something really nice about being so close and smelling each other, it can be sexual, sensual or just affectionate building closeness between each other. When you start kissing take it slowly, don’t go for the tongue kiss straight away. Start kissing with lips closed, and then explore the lips before you move inside the mouth. However do be aware that the more sensual and sexual the kiss the faster the movements and the mind of the man goes to the sexual areas. So if you are not ready to go all the way, then keep your kissing more sedate and hold back for now.

Romantic kissing can be more intimate than sex. Here’s how you set the scene for romance. Find somewhere you can be alone and somewhere you enjoy being. Maybe it’s looking out over the city lights at night, or sitting under the stars on a clear night, or in a field having a picnic, or home with soft music and candles, whatever works for you. Then make yourself look attractive, but don’t go for the sexy look if that’s not what you want to happen. Remember there is a difference between flirting and teasing and if you are not prepared to go all the way, you better leave it at flirting and make sure you don’t give the wrong signals.

Make sure your breath is fresh, brush your teeth and keep your breath mints close by. If you’re a smoker and you’re kissing a non-smoker then beware that your smoky breath could be a big turn off. Bad breath is a real turn off when kissing and if you have trouble in this area then you may consider brushing your tongue as well as your teeth and being careful about the foods you eat.

How do you make a man want to kiss you? Well first of all he has to be attracted to you, so look your most gorgeous best. Then set the romantic scene, make sure your breath is fresh and you smell nice. Then don’t forget to smile and connect with him with your eyes. Once you have his attention, you can do things like run your tongue over your lips or purse your lips together, or gently bite the top of your lip and before you know it you will be kissing him, or he will be kissing you.

Touching Holding Stroking
You know you don’t have to have sex to give a lot of pleasure to each other, you can touch each other by hugging, holding hands and caressing. Yes, it might get a bit hot and heavy but that doesn’t mean you have to go the extra step and it may not always be appropriate to, so you can just experience each other, by touching, holding and stroking which can be an extremely romantic or erotic experience.

Giving
Let your guy give in to you and pamper you (or visa versa). Sometimes it is just time to sit back and enjoy yourself, you don’t always have to reciprocate. Guys love to make sure that their lady is happy and they want to do what makes you happy so let them.

Training Him or Her
How do you train your guy or gal? Easy you just let him or her know what it is you want him or her to do. He’s not a mind reader so you have to let him know what you like. Show him how you like to be kissed, how you like to be touched and cuddled, and how you like sex. Let him know and he will thank you for it. Your romantic and sexual life will be much better for the trouble.

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