By Jennifer Angel

Disillusioned?
Has your Prince or Princess turned into a frog? Have they reached their used by date? Is it time to move on or can it be repaired? Mmmm, most relationships move through this stage at one time or another. If you really think there is no hope, then cut your losses and move on. But, if you think there is some hope, and you do want to work it out, then this is the time to start communicating. If you have not built good communication skills between you in the earlier stages of dating then you are going to have to work harder on building them now. Without being able to effectively communicate, it will be difficult to move to a deeper level of commitment with each other.

Don’t be too subtle.
Ok, don’t be too subtle with your communication, your love mate will have no idea of the subtleties of communication. You can’t expect them to read between the lines. The number one rule is, say what you think, let him or her know in straight talk, so there’s no misunderstanding of what you mean. Rule number two: don’t leave it so long that it’s at boiling stage before saying something. Instead, say it as you feel it. But, do pick your time, there is a good and a bad time for everything and it can make all the difference as to the result you receive. For instance, don’t try and bring up your relationship worries when they are watching their favourite TV show. Make a time to talk so you have their full attention.

Seductive talents.
If you want to keep him or her around for a while, use your seductive charm to keep them interested. With men, they lose their logical mind with anything south of their belt buckle. For females, keep it tactile and romantic. Even if you’ve been together for a while, being flirtatious could ignite magic.

Feel beautiful, be beautiful (or handsome).
It’s true, when you feel good about yourself, everyone notices you. If you want your guy or gal to notice you, then work on doing the things that make you feel good about yourself. When you feel special, you feel more confident, and can develop a certain glow that puts a smile on your face and a twinkle in your eye. In this state, you are irresistible.

Decision time.
You can’t put it off any more, it’s time to make that hard decision, you have finally got it into your head that your guy or gal is not going to settle down, and no way is he or she going to make a commitment. He’s such a boy, she’s such a girl and still watches every hot guy or gal that walks past. Or, perhaps they are so into their work, that they don’t even notice you. The partner you’ve given your heart to could in fact be scared of the ultimate closeness, or maybe is just not ready to go to the next step. The challenge for you, is making a judgement if they are ever going to be ready or if they are just going to waste your time. Particularly if you’re female, your hormones will be racing on. Listen to your heart, and ask yourself if you can you continue to make compromises. You want and deserve a committed loving man or women in your life who wants to settle down and he/she may just not be it. If so, cut your losses and move on now. There are men and women out there who do want the close bond you crave, so go out, find one, and don’t settle for anything less - the choice is yours!

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• Positive Outcomes of Relationship Conflict

• Friends with your Lover