So where do you go from here? You’ve decided yes you want to take it further, but how much further is the question and how soon. Guys generally want to get a girl into bed and girls love all the romantic stuff. And it’s not that guys don’t want to do the romantic stuff, it’s just that they see it leading to sex and that’s often their main mission.
Kissing
So let’s start with kissing. How compatible are you in the area of locking lips. This is the next step from flirting after you decide to date or take it further. Kissing is an extremely sensual act, and there is certain etiquette to kissing. For instance most people like to close their eyes when they kiss and it’s part of the kissing etiquette to close your eyes if your partner has their eyes closed. If you don’t close your eyes, it’s almost like you’re sneaking a peak when you’re not meant to and you’re spying on your partner when they’re not looking.
When you kiss someone and it’s a good kissing experience you get a feeling of excitement. There is something nice about being so close and smelling each other; it can be sexual, sensual or just affectionate, which leads to building closeness between each other. When you start kissing, take it slowly, don’t go for the tongue kiss straight away. Start kissing with lips closed and then explore the lips before you move inside the mouth. However, do be aware that the more sensual and sexual the kiss the faster the movements can be to sexual areas. If you are not ready to go all the way, then keep your kissing more sedate and hold back for now.
Romantic kissing can be more intimate than sex. Here’s how you set the scene for romance. Find somewhere you can be alone and somewhere you enjoy being. Maybe it’s looking out over the city lights at night, or sitting under the stars on a clear night, in a field having a picnic, or home with soft music and candles, whatever works for you, go about setting the scene. Then make yourself attractive, but don’t go for the sexy look if that’s not what you want to happen. Remember, there is a difference between flirting and teasing, and if you are not prepared to go all the way, you better leave it at the flirting stage and make sure you don’t give the other person all the wrong signals.
Make sure your breath is fresh, brush your teeth and keep your breath mints close by. If you’re a smoker and you’re kissing a non-smoker, then beware that your smoky breath could be a big turn off. Bad breath is a real turn off when kissing and if you have trouble in this area then you may consider brushing your tongue as well as your teeth and being careful about the foods you eat.
How do you make a man or woman want to kiss you? First of all he has to be attracted to you, so look your most gorgeous self. Then set the romantic scene, make sure your breath is fresh and you smell nice. Then don’t forget to smile and connect with him or her with your eyes. Once you have their attention, you can do things like run your tongue over your lips or purse your lips together, or gently bite the top of your lip and before you know it you will be kissing him or her, or they’ll be kissing you.
Touching Holding Stroking
You know you don’t have to have sex to give a lot of pleasure to each other, you can touch each other by hugging, holding hands and caressing. Yes, it might get a bit hot and heavy but that doesn’t mean you have to go the extra step and it may not always be appropriate to, so you can just experience each other, by touching, holding and stroking, which can be an extremely romantic and erotic experience.
Giving
Let your guy or girl give in to you and pamper you. Sometimes it’s time to sit back and enjoy yourself, you don’t always have to reciprocate. Guys and girls love to make sure that their partner is happy and they want to do what makes you happy, so let them.
Training Him or Her
How do you train your guy or gal? Easy, you just let him or her know what it is you want them to do. Show them how do you like to be kissed, how you like to be touched and cuddled, and how you like to have sex. Let them know, and they will thank you for it with your romantic and sexual life beign much better for the trouble.
