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  1. DeMartini

    PLEASE HELP! Missing Cat

    Yes! My street turns into a U shape and then the cross street is a long straight street that leads to the convention center. He is older and very skinny even though he eats a lot, so he could have some sort of illness, but we aren't aware of any. Then again we haven't taken him to the vet in years. I'm actually outside looking now.
  2. DeMartini

    PLEASE HELP! Missing Cat

    The Convention Center is just a few blocks away from me, do you think that's the C that you are seeing? The county fair has been going on for the past week there. I actually walked there yesterday and called around the bushes along the way to see if he wandered over by there. Though, I would think he would try to stay away from there as there are a lot of people walking around. I'll try the little community right next to the convention center. I really hope he's found some food and water. I don't want to him to hurt :( Please let me know if you see anything else. Thank you so much
  3. DeMartini

    PLEASE HELP! Missing Cat

    My beloved cat Coco went missing Wednesday evening. He is an indoor cat, but may have slipped out of the garage while we were bringing the garbage out. I searched the neighborhood for him with no luck. I also have been visiting the local animal shelter, hoping someone turns him in, but he's still no where to be found. He is older, so I thought it could be a possibility that he wasn't feeling well and hid somewhere and passed away; however, there is no smell, so I have hope that he's still alive. Please help me find him! I'm so worried as he's older and would have a difficult time fending for himself outside of our home. I just want him to be safe and back with his loving family as soon as possible. :(((( I miss him so much. Thank you in advance for any tips you can give.
  4. You've got a point :( But I also don't know how he truly feels about me.
  5. Thank you so much for you advice. :) Crazy thing is, we got back together. He gave me the option to decide whether or not I want to continue a romantic relationship with him. I wanted to take some time to decide, but rushed back in when I found pictures of him with another girl (he claims she's just a college friend). I know that is a terrible deciding factor, but in that instant, I knew I wanted him.I couldn't stand to see him with another girl. The problem is, I don't feel like is heart is completely in it. I feel like he keeps me around because I adore him and care for him. We also both really enjoy one another's company. But you're right, that's not enough. A romantic relationship is a two sided thing. I should never have to question if everything is fine. I should know that he adores me and feel wanted. It's just so hard for me to let go. I am attached and I'd rather have the feeling of having someone there than being alone. It's so, so hard. :( I am hesitant to breakup just because I keep thinking he'll change and everything will get better. I really don't know if he can change though. I'm a total slave to love. :( Good luck to you! and congratulations for staying strong... 4 years is a long time. Thanks again :)
  6. Thank you, Captain :) Thinking back, him leaving me was the best thing that could have happened; however, I will miss him a lot. :( Break ups are alway hard. I did learn a ton, though, that's for sure.
  7. I don't have to worry too much about it because he ended it today. :( He says we're still together and that it's just a break... But that's kind of crock to me. Ugh!!! Guys.... :_(
  8. I doubt it because everyone else does. We have only been together for 7 months, but he wants me to move in. I've kind of avoided moving in because I'm not sure if I'm ready for that yet. He tosses the idea of marriage around sometimes, but I'm not sure how sincere he is as we haven't been together that long. There are aspects of our relationship that I'm not happy about, but if I'm always looking for protection, I'm never going to find it. We have so much fun together. I don't want to just end things because everyone else around me is trying to convince me it isn't right. Uggghhh I wish I could read his mind and see where he stands in all this. I'm really hoping that he doesn't just keep me around to fill some emotional void.
  9. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months and during that time he has managed to paint a negative picture of himself to everyone I know. My friends tell me every single day that I'm too good for him and that I need to leave him. The thing is, I can't leave him. I really do adore this guy and although he can be a little crazy at times and often down right mean, I still enjoy the time I spend with him. We have a bond that my friends and family don't see. I have to admit, I have tried to leave him many times before, but I always end up running back to him. I really don't want to let him go. The thought of meeting another potential guy freaks me out because I really do like being with my boyfriend. Everyone is saying that he's never going to take our relationship seriously and that I am only hurting myself if I stay with him. Lately, I have noticed that he has been trying to be a better boyfriend. I think he genuinely does want to be with me. What I am wondering is, are my friends right? do any of you see our relationship going anywhere? Thank you!
  10. Thanks so much guys! :wub: The mother of his son is still alive. He likes to say they were just sex buddies, but it definitely seems like they were boyfriend and girlfriend at one point. He detests her now. He really confuses the heck out of me. He went with me to my friends wedding this weekend. a couple people told me that when I wasn't around him, he acted and spoke as if he were single. I of course got upset and started crying and he confronted everyone who said anything... It was so awkward! He was completely different yesterday... He kept referring to feelings of falling in love and that someday he's probably going to buy me a ring. When we got back from watching his son, he gave me a hug and told me about how much he appreciates me and that originally he thought I was mooching off him, but now he sees differently and wants to be a better boyfriend. I asked him if he's like this because we almost broke up during the wedding and he got mad. He said my friends misinterpret his words and actions and that I owed him an apology for believing them. I have the feeling he's the one getting really attached to me and doesn't want to let go of the attention he gets and the feelings of having a best friend who really cares for him. I think he worries about losing that which is why he's attempting to be nicer and pull me in closer. My brother thinks he likes me around on a selfish level because when it comes to taking care of his son, he's pretty much alone and I help him so much.
  11. I don't expect him to know if he wants to marry me now. I meant that I don't think he knows if he wants to be single or be in a relationship. He has said before that he doesn't want a girlfriend and that we should have just been friends, but that it's too late now because of the emotions he's put into being with me. I'm not trying to give him an ultimatum, but I also am looking for a relationship that will progress. I am looking for someone to settle down with, but I don't want to force it. I wouldn't do anything to sacrifice what we have now, even if it could just be a fling. He is somewhat shallow. I sometimes wonder why he wants to be with me. He tells me over and over again that my face is stunning and perfect and that's all that matters. I know he doesn't really think I could ever amount to anything more than a housewife, but he sees a lot of value in a housewife, so it's not totally negative. He also once told me that when he goes out, he looks around to make sure he has the prettiest girlfriend. I got offended when he told me this and he told me that every guy is always looking to be with the prettiest girl and to not worry because no one is prettier than me... I'm not sure if he was serious or he was actually trying to compliment in a really strange way. We really do have fun together, so I'm not going to change anything... I just hope he doesn't drag my heart around for the sake of fulfilling his need for attention. Thank you!
  12. I kind of get that vibe from him. He's VERY immature and has a lot of growing up to do. He's really weird, though, in the beginning, he acted like I was the one he had been waiting for and even picked out the wine we would serve at our wedding if we were to get married. Lol Now he drops hints all the time that he's not ready to settle down and is looking for fun, but he insists he wants to be with me. I wonder why he doesn't just want to be friends when I ask him.... Maybe he doesn't know what he wants? I guess I should just go with the flow for now. Thank you!
  13. I just started dating my boyfriend M 2 months ago. We have fun together, but mainly because we act more like kids than responsible adults. He is the CEO of his own start up, so he doesn't work much and lives a life of leisure. Every weekend with him feels like a vacation; I feel so carefree and dread when I have to snap back to reality and go home! I really love being around him, but I'm wondering if this is just a fun little fling, or something that can turn into so much more. He likes to show off what he has and although I'm not worried, I can't help but think that someone like him is looking for the prettiest girl he can get and will ditch me if a new pretty girl comes around and shows him attention. Then again, he did surprise me with the fact that he has a 6 month old child after we started dating. He knows that when dating, having a child usually is not an attractive detail. He appreciates how accepting I am of this and how much I help him him with the baby. I think that's another reason why he likes me around. Anyway, How do you guys see this relationship progressing? Am I wasting my time just fooling around with him? Thank you!
  14. DeMartini

    What sign are you?

    November 18, 1986... I'm a scorpio and I was born in the year of the tiger
  15. DeMartini

    past lives

    Great story! thanks for sharing. You are right, i probably did actually learn a lot from those lives... maybe you were robin hood in that past life! lol