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Hi all, i hope that those of you that may read this, that are still hurting yourself from holding on to a lost love, this may help. I found this so helpfull myself, and i hope you will too.

Love and Light to all.

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There are people who will walk away from you. Or hurt

you. Or not love you. Or not 'see' you.

And hear me when I tell you this - when people try to

walk away from you: let them go. Don't try to talk

another person into staying with you, loving you,

calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,

staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone if

you need to. When people turn from you, let them go.

They're on their way to somewhere or something else:

somewhere or something that does not include you and

let me tell why that is okay...

 

Your destiny is never tied to anybody or anything that

left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.

And if they are not joined to you, it's best they do

not stay. Let them go.

And it only means their part in your story is over.

And it's good to know when people's part is over so

you don't keep trying to push something that doesn't

need to be.

Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of

good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, and I believe

in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm

faithful, and I know whatever I need, I will have

available to me, without convincing it to be a part of

my life.

 

LET IT GO.

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong

and is not good for you, then you need to.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and

see your worth.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If someone has angered you........

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to thoughts of hatred or

revenge......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or

addiction......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets

your needs or talents.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you have a bad attitude.......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel

better.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take

you to a new spiritual level.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken

relationship.......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try

to help themselves......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you're feeling depressed and stressed........

 

LET IT GO.

 

If there is a particular situation that you are used

to handling

yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of

it," then you need to......

 

LET IT GO.

 

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.

Our Divine One, our Creator is doing new things for

2007!!!

 

LET IT GO.

 

I invite you to take an opportunity, during the next

60 seconds, to stop whatever you are doing, and send

loving, healing, abundant, happy, and warm thoughts to

the one who sent this to you. Know that they are

turning toward you, not away from you. They care for

you. They are not keeping you or judging you. They are

inviting you to grow with them, and to LET IT GO.

 

 

Finally, stop and think of those things or those

precious people in your life who were brought to you.

Take a moment to appreciate someone kind, someone

gracious, someone who loves you, and thank God and

pray for them.

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Thank you so much, really touched my heart and soul and even though I do know this is the way to be, it isn't always that easy to practice all the time.

 

Thank you, Bless you!

 

Love and Light!

 

Vivian

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Such wise words. I realised today that there is a certain person in my life that I need to let go of. You can't talk someone in to wanting you in their life,caring about you or even understanding you are trying to help them if they refuse to see it because of their own stubborness.

I guess I just have to believe as you say that my part in their story is over.

This can be an extremely hurtful realisation but unfortunately as you say you need to know when to let go..

I really wish it was different though..but not to be.

Thankyou...

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Beautiful post...thank you so much! :wub:

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Guest Ambthepro

Thank you so much for bumping this! I've been really needing to hear these words. :angel:

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Its been weeks now, everything i have been reading ends in something that tells me to "Let Go",

 

Even is been hard to do it, i have to let you go.

 

I found this on the net, want to share it here

 

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,

   it means I can't do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off,

   it's the realization I can't control another.

To let go is not to enable,

   but allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means

   the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another,

   it's to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for,

   but to care about.

To let go is not to fix,

   but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,

   but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,

   but to allow others to affect their destinies.

To let go is not to be protective,

   it's to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to deny,

   but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,

   but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,

   but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,

   but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To let go is not to regret the past,

   but to grow and live for the future.

 

To let go is to fear less and love more

       and

To let go and to let God, is to find peace !

Remember: The time to love is short

 ------ author unknown

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Very good stuff and very appropriate for all of us. Thanks for posting it!

Claire

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Guest Angel C
To let go and to let God, is to find peace !

 

I love that bit.

 

I like this one too, but is more to do with letting go of a relationship. It's a little on the pessimistic side, but does have an important message about life.

 

 

 

After a While

After a while you learn

The subtle difference between

Holding a hand and chaining a soul

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning

And company doesn't always mean security.

 

And you begin to learn

That kisses aren't contracts

And presents aren't promises

And you begin to accept your defeats

With your head up and your eyes ahead

With the grace of a woman

Not the grief of a child

 

And you learn

To build all your roads on today

Because tomorrow's ground is

Too uncertain for plans

And futures have a way

Of falling down in mid flight

 

After a while you learn

That even sunshine burns if you get too much

So you plant your own garden

And decorate your own soul

Instead of waiting

For someone to bring you flowers

 

And you learn

That you really can endure

That you are really strong

And you really do have worth

And you learn and you learn

With every good bye you learn.

 

Veronica A. Shoffstall

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I hope this post get stickied, it's a good one. :)

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Wow, good stuff! I like them all!

 

While I was reading that and thinking of someone I lost and think about often I heard "better than Me" by Hinder and then " I DOn't want to know its over"

 

Not sure what all that means. I get my signs through music a lot.

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Just so everyone knows... I pinned this. I think it's something that would benefit from being pinned. :D

 

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I needed to read this. Thanks all.

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You may not know it, but this post is very relvent to my life right now. You have no idea how beautiful these words are <3 much love.

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Hi all, i hope that those of you that may read this, that are still hurting yourself from holding on to a lost love, this may help. I found this so helpfull myself, and i hope you will too.

Love and Light to all.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx <img src="http://www.psychicguild.com/forum/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":D" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" />

 

There are people who will walk away from you. Or hurt

you. Or not love you. Or not 'see' you.

And hear me when I tell you this - when people try to

walk away from you: let them go. Don't try to talk

another person into staying with you, loving you,

calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,

staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone if

you need to. When people turn from you, let them go.

They're on their way to somewhere or something else:

somewhere or something that does not include you and

let me tell why that is okay...

 

Your destiny is never tied to anybody or anything that

left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.

And if they are not joined to you, it's best they do

not stay. Let them go.

And it only means their part in your story is over.

And it's good to know when people's part is over so

you don't keep trying to push something that doesn't

need to be.

Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of

good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, and I believe

in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm

faithful, and I know whatever I need, I will have

available to me, without convincing it to be a part of

my life.

 

LET IT GO.

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong

and is not good for you, then you need to.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and

see your worth.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If someone has angered you........

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to thoughts of hatred or

revenge......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or

addiction......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets

your needs or talents.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you have a bad attitude.......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel

better.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take

you to a new spiritual level.....

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken

relationship.......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try

to help themselves......

 

LET IT GO.

 

If you're feeling depressed and stressed........

 

LET IT GO.

 

If there is a particular situation that you are used

to handling

yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of

it," then you need to......

 

LET IT GO.

 

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.

Our Divine One, our Creator is doing new things for

2007!!!

 

LET IT GO.

 

I invite you to take an opportunity, during the next

60 seconds, to stop whatever you are doing, and send

loving, healing, abundant, happy, and warm thoughts to

the one who sent this to you. Know that they are

turning toward you, not away from you. They care for

you. They are not keeping you or judging you. They are

inviting you to grow with them, and to LET IT GO.

 

 

Finally, stop and think of those things or those

precious people in your life who were brought to you.

Take a moment to appreciate someone kind, someone

gracious, someone who loves you, and thank God and

pray for them.

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The universe answers. I have been so messed up about my ex. I felt he was my soulmate. For 8 months its been depressing me. I just missed him so much that I felt broken without him. I recently emailed him hoping he'd want contact.He hasn't replied. Yesterday I joined this site and yours were the first words I read. They were exactly what I needed to hear. I need to let him and the hurt of not having him go. I agree with everything you say but I don't regret mailing him. I believe that if you want something then its worth fighting for. At least I feel I tried. Thanks for helping me move on. I will spend more time focusing on achieving the things I want in my life, rather than lost. When I read your words it was at a coincidential. But then maybe there are no coindiences.

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