You might not be your usual happy go lucky chatty self this month Gemini's. in fact your other half might wonder what's wrong with you and push you for reasons why you are suddenly so snippy. Whatever you do Gemini's avoid confrontations and avoid apologizing for every little thing. Just be your usual happy go lucky self.
This month it really is all about pulling yourself up by the boot straps and making the very most of having Mars the planet of passion and activity transiting your 11th house of friendship, hopes, dreams and wishes. If you're single, a friendship could very well turn into something more permanent - perhaps with someone born under the sign of Aries or Leo. A lunar eclipse in Leo on the 21st transits your 3rd house of communication which makes it a great first date night.
YOUR LOVE ADVICE THIS MONTH: Make sure you are as open and honest with those people you love (or like very much) this month Gemini's. It's in your open back and fro that you will really get to the nitty gritty of whatever it is that is on your mind and how you can make things run as smoothly as possible.
The good times are here and they’re here to stay Gemini’s! The 2nd half of the month in particular is set to be a wonderful time frame for you with the Full Moon in your sign on the 23rd bringing with it a chance for you to come full circle on something you have worried about or pondered on for some time. Venus the lover finally moves direct mid-month in Libra, a fantastic placement for you. In your fellow air sign of Libra and your 5th house of romance, creativity and self-fulfillment through December 3, this is great time for you to pick up where you might have left off earlier in the year. Some of you could find that you get back together with someone you might have parted ways with last month or earlier in the year, while others could meet someone worth meeting after the 16th, with Venus in Libra and Jupiter the planet of good luck and opportunity squarely placed in Sagittarius where he will stay for a year.
Jupiter’s tour through Sagittarius promises a year of positive interactions with others. If you are single, get ready to mingle. Jupiter is sure to bring with him good luck and a positive attitude towards relationships and the beginning phases of new relationships. In fact if you’ve just started seeing someone casually now and would like things to progress, you won’t have to do much to make that happen. The best part? Once you ask for something more serious, you won’t have to worry about begin refused or rejected. The other person is on board with you! your best matches in November love-wise are Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra. Just know that Venus will turn direct on the 16th a few hours before Mercury, your ruler and the planet of communication and clear thinking turns retrograde. Your mission mid-month is to be as patient as possible – not an easy task for you. The good news is that if you can be patient and play the wait and see game things might turn out exactly the way you wanted them to!
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN NOVEMBER – Your ruler Mercury spend a lot of time in your on one relationship zone this month. It’s vital that you treat each and every relationship you have with the right amount of respect and take the time to make sure you aren’t cutting corners or doing things your way without taking into account other people’s needs and desires. Once again your Full Moon on the 23rd helps to close the door on a chapter of your life that you need to let go of Gemini’s. Make sure you do.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Cosmic roadblocks could occur around the 10th or 11th and will be quite frustrating to say the least. If someone you love is holding something over your head, you may need to find a way to eliminate that problem. It might be that you will have to come clean and confess something. It might also be that confronting someone with facts you’ve recently unearthed will become necessary. Regardless, don’t shy away twins. Or ignore it and get busy with other things thinking you’ll get back to it when you can. Meet the situation head on.
Venus the planet of love and money is out of phase in Scorpio – your 6th house of hard work, health and wellbeing October 5 – November 16. If you’re feeling stalled or delayed with regard to a relationship situation, don’t’ blame yourself. Once Venus goes retrograde, moving forward with your plans to become monogamous or to cohabitate won’t go along so smoothly. Whatever you do, don’t rush or push yourself or your other half. It’s the perfect time to hit the gym together or work out together if you feel you need to do something as a team.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN OCTOBER – If you’re single there is wisdom in remaining single for the time being Gemini’s. Venus retrograde doesn’t bode well for new relationships (or ones on rocky ground either for that matter). If you do embark on a new love affair whilst Venus is out of phase, it could be plagued with all sorts of stop/start issues.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
For those of you in a relationship, you understand that families come with that relationship. As annoying, interfering and passive aggressive as they might all be! If you’re looking at a date to invite family and or friends over for a get together this month, the 14th stands out as being the best time, with the Moon in Sagittarius and energetic Mars in your fellow air sign of Aquarius.
Single? The first half of September shines as being the best time to meet somebody worth meeting with Venus in Libra through the 10th and Mercury in Leo through the 7th. Venus slides off into Scorpio on the 9th, urging you to take a current relationship to a whole new level Gemini’s. It might be that you’re ready to get closer and more intimately involved or share more of yourself. Just make sure that whomever you are confiding in or sharing information with is someone you can feel you trust at the end of the day.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE – Best matchups for singles are Librans and Leos along with Aries later in the month. In fact the Full Moon in Aries, your 11th house of friendship hopes and wishes could have some of you thinking about turning a friendship into a ‘friends with benefits’ type deal. Are you sure this is something you can handle?
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Some good news and some not so good news this week in the love life department twins. Mercury your ruler and the planet of words and communication is out of phase in your communication zone through August 19. That’s the not so good news. The fabulous news is that Venus the Goddess of love and beauty will take off for your 5th house of lovers and playmates on August 6.
If you’re single, now is your time to mingle Gemini’s. If you’re set up on blind date, make sure you dress to impress and be your most bubbly, shiny self. Even if the connection isn’t there, it’s good dating practice and gets you back out ‘there’. Your best matches this month are Libras, Leos and Aquarians.
If you’re attached, take advantage of this time to romance your other half all over again. Once Mercury moves direct on the 19th, relighting the fire and energy between you and your other half will be that much easier. Put any and all grievances and differences aside and dive right in.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN AUGUST – You may feel as if you take 2 steps forward and 3 steps back this month Gemini’s. That is the result of Venus moving into Libra and Mercury out of phase and then moving direct. Slow and steady and don’t make any sudden moves or decisions.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
If you’ve been crushing on someone for some time twins, this is the month the crush could be reciprocated and your ‘crushee’ could acknowledge that they have been interested in getting to know you better too. Venus the planet of relationships in your communication zone the first 10 days of July makes this the perfect time to suggest getting together over a coffee or drink after work. Nothing too long or involved the first date out.
However if you are attached and looking for someone to flirt with, make sure you are ready to face the consequences of such actions Gemini’s. Your partner might be used to your flirty ways but if you take it too far (as in go for coffee or drinks with someone like a real date) things could change rapidly. Whatever you do, don’t take a simple flirtation to the next level.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE FOR JULY – A Full Moon in your think tank fellow air sign of Aquarius and your spiritual zone on the 28th makes this the perfect time for you to pretty much rethink everything if you’re at all confused about your situation.
Your New Moon in your sign, your first house of personality and ego does wonders for you, especially those of you who have been floundering in a relationship you’re unsure of or who have been on the singles scene for way too long.
Your ruler Mercury the planet of communication and clear thinking spends the first half of the month in your sign, making it a great time for you to be able to talk things through with your other half and explain how you’re really feeling about something Gemini’s. However in your typical Gemini way you may change your mind and your tune later on in June when Mars the motivator stops in his tracks in your 9th house of spirituality on the 26th. This is a place where opinions are formed, changed and reformed. Just make sure it’s you making the decisions and the changes of mind about a situation with your partner and that you’re not being talked into something you might later regret.
For singles, get ready to mingle once Venus the lover moves into Leo on the 14th where she stays through July 11. In your 3rd house of conversations and communication, she makes it easy for you to chit chat up potentials and let them chat you up too! Great matches for you are Leos Librans and Aries this month.
YOUR JUNE LOVE ADVICE – Being as open as you can about pretty much everything this month is the way to go twins. Not letting anyone put words in your mouth and being able to see the ups and downs of a situation is a huge advantage. Knowing when you’re being lead down the ‘garden path’ is critical.
Last Month’s Love Horoscope for Gemini
Early in the month, communications could prove difficult for you and your loved one, so if you feel as if you’re getting nowhere, rather than becoming frustrated and angry, leave the discussion until another time. Maybe even for another week or so until you feel you are ready to tackle something that has been bothering you for some time. If you feel you and your partner aren’t speaking the same language, change the narrative or wait until you feel things are working better for you and your other half.
If you’ve been someone recently, this month doubt may creep in and you may wonder if you’re seeing someone who hasn’t been as honest with you as you need and would like Gemini’s. Listen carefully to your intuition and even if you’re right, do some investigating before you push them away completely twins. It’s not worth being in a relationship where you don’t trust the other person.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE: Communication is very important this month- for both singles and committed twins. Making sure you are both on the same page and in sync is vital twins.
Love and Relationship Guide
Gemini: Always up for a Challenge
It can sometimes be hard to see how serious Geminis are in a relationship, but this should not make you think that they are not. Geminis are seeking a “meeting of the minds” and, therefore, desire to establish a friendship first before jumping into a relationship. Intelligence and wit are prerequisites for a Gemini partner, as they are always looking for a challenge and a partner that can and will challenge them both intellectually and physically.
TWO FOR THE PRICE OF ONE
Mercury ruled, you Gemini’s like a lot of foreplay leading up to the big event. Emails, texting and long chats over the phone turn you twins on. Sexually you have the good twin/bad twin thing going on – sometimes you like it naughty, sometimes you like it nice. And sometimes you like it both ways and more!
Feeling connected to someone is more important than anything else. You are often psychically in tune with your other half – you lift up your mobile to call them and they’re calling you! You need cerebral stimulation as much as physical stimulation in a relationship and enjoy seeing foreign films, concerts and plays with your lover versus sitting around the house watching TV.
Someone who keeps busy and fit are two of your major needs in a partner. You don’t like lazy anybody’s and if your other half doesn’t like to keep up the conversation at dinner and you start to feel like ’one of those couples’ – you will be quick to hightail it out of there and find someone who does.
Gemini’s always have someone waiting ’in the wings’ – you pick and choose when you want to be alone and when you want someone in your life. Best matches for you are go-getter signs like Aries, Sagittarians and intellectual Aquarians – who get your need for mental as well as physical stimulation.
Extremely independent and not always punctual (aka flaky), you usually pick friends like yourself – very busy and can only have a drink after work versus a leisurely dinner or brunch. Librans, Aries & Sagittarians all fit the bill as they too don’t like dawdling when shopping or staying too long in one spot. You enjoy fitting a lot into one day and when someone plans an all-day bridal shower or baby shower, there’s no way you can commit to that! You need and seek out friends who are okay with you canceling at the last minute or understanding that you are busy at work or with your partner and can’t make it.
Usually you’re the first one to fly the nest and test yourself outside of your home and family zone. Many of you move overseas at a young age – you’re restless and need a sense of being a stranger in a strange land. And while you enjoy chatting on the phone and texting with siblings and family, you don’t necessarily go in for all of the family functions and dramas that invariably flare up at times in family situations. The same goes for your partner’s family. You don’t mind if you’re overlooked as a bridesmaid whatsoever! Plus you don’t like to feel as if you owe anything to anyone – so will often get a job early in life so you can support yourself somewhat and not lean on the family finances.
TALK TO ME…
Conversation and being online, texting, IM’ing, Facebook, FaceTime, Instagram – you love it all. The Millennial age is yours for the taking Gemini’s and you are usually up on all the tech talk and geek stuff before anyone else. Sometimes however you need to remember that discussing politics, religion and money aren’t the best topics unless you’re with your ’safety group’.
WHEN TALKING TO…
Other Twins –The conversation flows and you often finish each other’s sentences. If you have the same iPhone or listen to the same music you will feel as if you have met a soul sister or brother and a lifelong friendship could very well be formed.
Cancer – In a partner, their moodiness can be hard to deal with however you do like their romantic side and gestures. Cancers tend to speak from the heart and can be rather deep and serious for you. You are better with more flippant signs.
Leo – You love the Leo confidence and swagger and always have fun with them. With them you can hit all subjects and know you will always get an honest answer/sparring contest back – which you enjoy.
Virgo – While you both are ruled by Mercury the communicator, Virgos tend to take themselves way too seriously at times. Punctuality and doing what you said you would do is a must for them. Not for you however.
Libra – One of your best match ups astrologically. They complement you and you can always rely on each other to bail and be okay with it – you’re both go with the flow types and it just works.
Scorpio – This is one sign that doesn’t like a flake or indecisive person – the typical Scorpio makes plans and expects them to be met and executed! Plus Scorpios can be rather lazy and don’t have a lot to say sometimes which makes it exhausting for you.
Sagittarius – A great sign for you as a friend, lover or flatmate. You just get each other and can hang out for hours listening to music, watching movies or working out. Your opposite sign, you tend to complete each other and work well as a team.
Capricorn – Sometimes you work well together as Capricorns are business oriented and you’re a great networker/schmoozer. Capricorns tend to stick to the tried and true however, while you like to explore new horizons and adventures.
Aquarius – Another air sign and someone who you instinctively trust and admire. Aquarians tend to be aloof and cagy at times so you might end up chasing them for a catch up versus everyone else chasing you up for a change.
Pisces – are usually way too heavy and emotional for you to have a light hearted chat with. If you want to discuss a break up or something you’re upset about, they are a great shoulder to cry on however.
Aries – They can tend to get annoyed with you at times if you flake out too much on them but they get over it quickly and you can form a strong bond that lasts a lifetime. They definitely call you on your tardiness and inability to respond in a timely manner though!
Taurus – You enjoy bouncing ideas off people and Taureans usually enjoy being right – so bulls are difficult friends at times due to the fact that you can’t get away with too many tall tales with them as they will correct you every time!
Also see Zodiac LOVE Compatibility for Gemini.