Attached? Some of you may feel slightly stuck in a relationship kind of rut this month Sagittarius. Maybe you didn't clear the air from the end of last year and feel there is unfinished business to attend to? The start to 2019 brings with it a new way to seek new connections and jump-start your life and your love life. Use the energy of the Lunar Eclipse in Leo, your fellow fire sign and 9th house of spirituality January 21st to rethink where you are, who you are with and how you can make it that much better for both of you.
Single? Venus, the Goddess of all that involves love and relationships transits your sign January 8 - February 4. Along with Jupiter, the planet of good luck and good fortune in your sign for the next year, your 1st house of personality and ego, 2019 will be one of the best years of your life when it comes to love. It's just a matter of find the right person.
YOUR LOVE ADVICE THIS MONTH: Avoiding the truths about your relationship is not going to help your cause whatsoever Sagittarius. Face whatever issues you have head on and make sure you let your partner or lover know that you are working on them and are willing to let them in on your needs and wants too.
Relationships that aren’t currently on solid ground could be problematic around the 30th when loving Venus faces off with shocking, rebellious Uranus the planet of the unexpected. This pairing has been known to break up more than one relationship so be prepared – but do keep in mind that they’ve also brought more than one couple back together again. Enjoy the reunion, but before you do anything drastic, take some time alone to think about your decisions, your moves and any and all repercussions from making any move.
Venus the Goddess of love and harmony finally moves direct in Libra November 16, your 11th house of hopes, wishes and friendship where she stays through December 3. Some of you might find yourself suddenly fancying a friend – realizing you’ve had romantic thoughts about him or her for some time and never acted on it. Is now the time to act on it Sagittarius? With Mercury the planet of communication and clear thinking going out of phase in your sign November 16 – December 6, you will find that you are dammed if you do and dammed if you don’t. Mercury retrograde is not your friend! Out of phase in your sign, Murphy’s Law is in full effect Sagittarius. Murphy’s Law of ‘whatever can go wrong will go wrong’ is in full effect. No sudden moves!
YOUR NOVEMBER LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE – The Full Moon November 23rd highlights your opposite sign of Gemini, your 7th house of relationships and will bring things that aren’t working for you back around to your way of thinking and doing business. For those of you with relationship issues, this is the time to fix them once and for all or move on. Full Moons are all about closure and making sure things on your ‘to do’ list are ticked off before moving forward with other things.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
The Sun, Venus the planet of love and beauty and Saturn the planet of focus and discipline are all making plans that will allow you to enjoy yourself this month – and totally guilt free as well! Just the way you like it Sags! Working on your wishlist is a great idea this month. It’s definitely a time for some kind of excitement/adventure. You live for these kinds of things. The ordinary humdrum life is not for you fiery individuals. Maybe a long weekend with someone special? Or with someone new that you’re into but not 100% sure of yet?
Venus the planet of love and relationships goes out of phase October 5 – November 16 in Scorpio, your 12th house of past karma and self-renewal. This could bring exe’s out of the woodwork or have you reaching out to people you were once very involved and in love with. How many times have you tried to make this relationship work? If this is not your first or second time at the cosmic rodeo, you need to go into this cautiously. As much as you like flying by the seat of your pants, you don’t want to add more heartache on top of heartache with the same person?
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN OCTOBER – Joint finances and shared resources could be tricky to handle while Venus is out of phase. Maybe you and your partner share a car or bank account and both feel someone is not being as fair as they could be? Perhaps you are contributing more to the household money pot and feel taken advantage of? Don’t get angry. Talk it out.
Your love life definitely picks up after the 10th when fiery Mars settles into your conversation and communication zone. If you’re single, it’s time to mingle and make sure you are invited to everything and anything. Your best match ups this month are Aries, Leos and Librans. The 18th stands out as being your ‘first date’ best date. Even if you feel you’ve met the love of your life, avoid falling head over heels in love too fast and too furiously. Keep in mind that Venus the lover is going out of phase in your past karma zone October 5 – November 16, which could bring a past love back into your life and have you second guessing everything.
For partnered up Sagittarians, energizer Mars in your communication zone gives you an even louder voice to speak up when you feel something isn’t working or something isn’t right in your relationship. There is no such thing as a perfect, no fault relationship after all as much as you might think you’re in one.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE – A Full Moon in Aries September 24 lights up your romance and fun zone. Make sure you have plans that night – as it’s sure to make for a special time – whether you’re with your true love or someone you like!
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You’re known for being a risk taker Sagittarians and this is the perfect month to do just that. Especially if you’re single and ready to mingle! The 7th is the perfect day to go on a first date with loving Venus, the relationship guru and passionate Mars getting together in an easy trine aspect that will create the stuff that made in heaven alignments were made of.
If you are already in a relationship, steer clear of arguing or disagreements with your other half. You may both be pushing each other’s buttons around the 1st and with Mercury the communicator out of phase in your fellow fire sign of Leo, your spiritual and higher thinking zone, you could jump in with both feet in fighting mode when the issue isn’t’ really that serious. Don’t overreact to something that is said or done. Keep your cool and go with the flow this month.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE FOR AUGUST – If you’ve made plans for the 9th or 10th you may need to scale back on them a bit Sagittarius. Especially if a lot of money is involved (like a long weekend away, hosting a large party or dinner somewhere fancy).
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Business wise July looks like being a mega month Sagittarius. In fact many of you will be so busy caught up in work matters, you might not have as much time as you would like for matters of the heart.
The thing is working so closely with others, some of you might develop a crush on a superior or if you’re the boss, someone may make it very clear that they have the ‘hots’ for you. You know the expression Sags – ‘you should never mix business with pleasure’. It’s up to you what you do and if you are in a relationship, you need to think very carefully before getting involved in anyway with anyone you work with…even if it’s just a mild flirtation.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE FOR JULY – Even if you’re single, there are always side effects to a work related romance. Whether to keep it a secret or let the world know? Plus with Mercury turning retrograde and a Lunar Eclipse/Full Moon in Aquarius, your communication zone, if you do tell someone in confidence about a budding romance at work, they just might gossip about it anyway!
Laying your cosmic cards on the table and being completely honest is very ‘you’ Sagittarius and should be ‘very you’ right now. The Sun, a New Moon mid month and Mercury all spend time in Gemini this month – your opposite sign and 7th house of relationships. This will give all of you a chance to say what’s on your mind and be open and honest without coming across as bossy or demanding. Letting others you’re in a relationship with know what you expect and what you won’t tolerate is essential this month.
The Sun, Mercury and Venus the Goddess of love and money all take turns in your 8th house of shared joint resources this month, Sagittarius, urging you to sit down with all parties involved and get things settled regarding what’s yours and what’s theirs. Money can definitely get in the way of relationships and cause all sorts of upsets and misunderstandings if not handled properly. Avoid signing or agreeing to anything around the18th or 19th however, especially if you’re not 100% sure you can trust in the person who is advising you.
YOUR JUNE LOVE ADVICE – ‘Honesty is definitely the best policy’ this month Sagittarius. Letting others know how you really feel without sugar coating a thing is the only way you will truly be able to communicate with those around you.
Last Month’s Love Horoscope for Sagittarius
On the 7th Mercury the communicator in Aries, your fellow fire sign and romance zone will square off with Pluto, the stuff that bitter and righteous arguments are made of. On the same day however, Venus and Neptune will be on duty, a pair that is always ready to negotiate a treaty. No matter how mad you may be Sagittarius, it ain’t over until the fat lady sings as they say. However for those of you who feel the relationship has been shattered in one way or another, it might be time to move on.
And the time to move on is around your annual Full Moon on the 29th, which brings things full circle and is a great time for closure. This could also mean that a side of you that you’ve managed to keep hidden or on the downlow up until now will suddenly come up and singles may realize you’ve been barking up the wrong cosmic tree of late. If you’ve been focused on looks for example it might be time to focus on personality and a sense of humour or someone who’s super smart for a change.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE – Use Mercury the planet of words in Aries through the 15th to really set the tone with your other half and let him or her know what’s in your heart and mind.
Love and Relationship Guide
Sagittarius: The Free Spirit
Adventure is the name of the game for the free-spirited Sagittarians. They are very expressive of their affection in a relationship and can be quite unconventional. Strong-willed and independent, they seek a partner that can be their equal in both aspects. They seek security but are at their best in a relationship when given free rein to explore the unknown; therefore, striking a balance is essential so they can have a lasting relationship while also retaining their individuality.
READY, SET, GO!
Ruled by Jupiter, the planet of abundance and opportunity, you don’t play around when it comes to love. You play hard and you love hard – it’s as simple as that. When it comes to lovers, the more the merrier – you fall fast and hard and are a dream partner to have (most of the time).
Fun, witty, chatty and personable, you love to travel and often meet foreigners when at home. Long distance love affairs are something you thrive on – freedom plus a phone call to tuck you in at night. And the occasional fab meet up as well. A lot of you don’t marry/settle down until later in life – you need to sow your wild oats (your symbol is half horse after all). Fellow fire signs Aries and Leos give you the freedom you need along with the fiery passion, excitement and drama you yearn for too. Boring, cookie cutter relationships are not your thing. Highs and lows, arguments followed by makeup sex keep you coming back for more – until you meet the one who tames you and makes you realize you’re getting too old or busy for all this dating!
Librans tell you how wonderful you are, while Gemini’s are your opposite sign and always have something going on – they’re quite the challenge for you – both great matches as well.
The more the merrier goes for your friendships as well. You have a wide circle of interesting and eccentric friends – quite the eclectic group. You love having people from different parts of the world at your table – accents flying and laughing at the way they pronounce things or use words. In one on one friendships, once you let go and sign up for long haul – you are loyal, trustworthy and willing to go the extra yard for the people you love in your life. Friends often become family – especially for those of you ex-pats who build a life overseas. You often have rather odd, long distance relationships with your family members and tend to think of friends as your ’true’ family.
You know how to laugh at your own misfortune and joke with others about theirs – and you are the go to person in an emotional crisis – break up, illness or worse – you are a great rock to lean on. You make a great ’aunt’ and ’uncle’ too for your friends and are always very generous with your time, money and energy.
You tend to fly the coop early in life – going to college/Uni overseas or moving in with a group of friends and doing your own thing after high school. Unless your parents are super cool with you being out and about late and getting up to shenanigans, you will feel hemmed in – something you continue to feel through life. ’Freedom’ to live the way you want to live is paramount. While you may feel totally connected to your parents and family, you also need the outlet of your friends, lovers and travelling to make you whole and happy.
You often come back into the family fold/business when you settle down, have children and enjoy having grandparents and relatives around you.
TALK TO ME…
You are one of the biggest talkers in the zodiac – and are never short of a word or three! Just be careful you don’t oversell yourself or someone or something else and end up short on the due day. And stop interrupting! As much as you love to be the centre of attention – like all fire signs – you don’t have to dominate the conversation all the time Sags!
WHEN TALKING TO…
Another Sag – You need a timeout sometimes with another Sagittarius – you both talk each other out! However while you do tend to both burn each other out and eventually get sick of each other, it’s fun while it lasts! You do travel well together however.
Capricorn – Anything to do with business, money and making the right decision are subjects to chat with goats about. They are earthy smart people and you like what they have to say – but they will never be warm, fuzzy friends.
Aquarius – Here is someone you always have fun with – an interesting soul for sure and a sign that loves their freedom as much as you do. So what if you’re running late? They’re probably running later! Which means they are a great low key running mate for you.
Pisces – Nothing much to talk about here – as Pisces are way too sensitive for your liking and theirs. You tend to shoot straight from the hip and can offend their delicate feelings and fray their nerves. A good person to go to when in need of a quiet chat and cup of tea…wine…
Aries – Who goes first? Here is your conversational soul mate – there isn’t enough oxygen in the room to deal with you two when you get going! Even if you’ve just talked on the phone for 2 hours, you still forget to tell them something – so you simply have to start texting!
Taurus – A bit of a snooze fest for you – way too punctual and uptight in some ways. They love working out the dinner bill down to the dime at times and being the big tipper you are it can be infuriating. They often have a much smaller version of events than you do too – so you can’t get away with all of your exaggerating.
Gemini – Your opposite sign and someone who totally gets you! An air sign, together you make hot air and you two are often joined at the hip from an early age and stay friends for life. The only thing is you do have to be careful you don’t gossip and give each other’s secrets away while doing so.
Cancer – A nurturing sign, you do find yourself unloading and unleashing when around Cancers – however you sometimes come away from seeing them feeling as if you don’t take things seriously enough at times and begin to worry if you’re a good person…which you know you are.
Leo – With a Leo you can definitely kick up your hoofs and have fun! Like you and Aries, they are a fire sign and always have something going on, something to say, somewhere to be and only pay half of their attention to what you’ve got going on – and we know how you love a challenge!
Virgo – If you want a friend to be there for you when all of your other friends ditch you or leave you stranded on your birthday with no one to celebrate with, Mr. or Mrs. Virgo will be by your side – as they are dependable and loyal..even if they are also slightly clingy…
Libra – You and Librans love to talk about everything and anything under the Sun – celebs, who’s gotten fat, who’s had work done, who’s lying about their age and flipping through the tabloids looking and pics while sipping cocktails and having a blast!
Scorpio – You are the most brutally honest and open sign in the zodiac whilst Scorpios are the most secretive. So although you fascinate each other and try to get into a deep and meaningful conversation, most of the time it’s a waste of time – because Scorpios don’t give an inch!