Sick of being the 'fixer' of the zodiac Virgos? That seems to be what you've become doesn't it? 2019 is set to be a different year for you, with the Sun and a solar eclipse on the 5th starting the year off in your fellow earth sign of Capricorn, your 5th house of self-fulfillment and fun. This is a yearlong process of nurturing yourself and being more 'greedy' when it comes to YOU and the time you spend on YOU.
Single? Once you feel more confident and know who you are and what you want, the better your options and choices will be. Capricorns and Scorpios are both great matches for you and with communicator Mercury, your ruler in Capricorn for most of January, you will definitely be a popular figure on the social circle.
YOUR LOVE ADVICE THIS MONTH: The only way you will really be able to love and connect with someone is by loving and connecting with who you are at your core Virgos. If that means you have to stay single, take some classes and meditate on all of the things you have going on in your life, that's simply the way it has to be.
Mighty, optimistic Jupiter will take off for your solar 4th house of home and family November 9, making the next year the perfect time for you to make major moves. If you’ve been thinking about putting your home on the market, renting it out or making part of it an Air/Bnb type set up, this is the time to do it. If you and your other half have been thinking about putting in a pool, adding on a room or expanding your family (having another baby or adopting another dog) the time is ripe with Jupiter in your 4th house. Just remember that with your ruler Mercury the planet of communication and clear thinking planet out of phase November 16 – December 6 in the same part of your chart, you will have to wait until mid-December to start anything new and try to get new projects off the ground.
No matter what types of disputes you’ve been going through with a loved one lately Virgo, the two of you will find a way to come together and make nice around November 9, thanks to an easy trine aspect between Venus and Mars – the 2 planets that revolve around love and passion. This is the stuff that reconciliations and successful negotiations are made of. Put down your boxing gloves and have a cup of tea together. It’s time to mend fences and make love not war! Whatever you do, don’t feel rushed around the 16th to make a decision. That’s the day Mercury the planet of communication and clear thinking goes out of phase and as you know, when Mercury is retrograde, Murphy’s Law of ‘whatever can go wrong will go wrong’ is in full effect.
LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE IN NOVEMBER – On the 30th loving Venus will face off with startling Uranus, the planet of the unexpected. This meeting of astrological minds can pretty much go either way – that is between love at first sight or splitting up suddenly. Your mission is to once again, simply go with the flow. If you’re single, prepare yourself. If you’re with someone but you know deep in your heart that things aren’t going to work out, it might be time to say goodbye. Your future lovers are waiting!
Virgo (August 24 – September 23)
Once again, just like on September 8th, Venus the Goddess of love and Mars the planet of energy will get into a square on the 10th, and once again you’ll need to resist the urge to play the guilt card when dealing with a loved one you still feel owes you an apology or favour. The main thing to make sure of is that you are indeed owed an apology. You could simply be overreacting and making mountains out of molehills Virgos.
Venus the lover of the zodiac and keeper of the purse strings as well retrogrades in your 3rd house of communication and clear thinking October 5 – November 16. If you’re involved in a relationship, the issue of love and or money could come up during this time. Both matters need to be handled with kid gloves. If you feel as if the romance has gone out of your partnership, it’s vital that you do something about it. Finding new ways to put the spark back into your relationship is vital. As is working out the finances and if necessary agreeing to disagree about certain money issues. Perhaps your other half is a much bigger spender than you are? More generous and extravagant? While it may bug you and could mean that you are often having to pick up the tab when he or she runs out of cash, you need to work that out between you and discuss it. Don’t harbour resentments and be angry about it. Especially with Venus spinning out of phase for 6 weeks.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN OCTOBER – Single? Trying to kick start a new relationship whilst Venus is out of phase isn’t advisable Virgos. Especially seeing as Venus is retrograding in your communication zone. If you do go out on a date, the less said the better. You may say or reveal something you didn’t want to say or reveal!
Birthday peeps Virgo (August 24 – September 23)
Your New Moon September 8 brings with it a chance for singles to meet someone worth meeting this month. Mars the planet of passion and romance transiting Capricorn, your fellow earth sign and spiritual zone through the 11th as well as Saturn moving direct in the same part of your chart on the 6th signals a green light for single and attached Virgos on the 9th.
Once Venus the Goddess of love and relationships moves out of your money zone and into your conversation zone on the 10th, it will be much easier for you to express yourself and exactly what you want in your life and your love life particularly. Sometimes you Virgos can be the strong and silent types however that can work against you when you don’t get what you want or who you want because you didn’t stand up and ask for it. Luckily for you Mercury, your ruler and the planet of communication in your sign from September 7th – 23rd helps provide you with the perfect words at the perfect time this month.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE – The weekend around the 15th looks like being the best time for you to relax and unwind with your other half or your bff Virgos. If you can grab a day or two off work and do a road trip or a quick getaway do it.
Virgo (August 24 – September 23)
Mars the planet of passion and lust retrogrades further backwards into your fellow earth sign of Capricorn, your romance, self-fulfillment and creativity zone on the 14th, making it a great time for partnered up Virgos to have some fun with their other half. If you’re single, Mars could give you a second chance to get in touch with a former lover or get together with someone from your love life past and give your relationship another shot. Keep in mind that with Mercury your ruler, the planet of clear thinking and communication out of phase in your past karma zone through August 19, you might be hanging onto the good times and memories and not remembering the not so good times Virgos.
Venus the Goddess of love will remain in your sign until August 6. Single? You will have more than one admirer admiring you early this month. Capricorns, Pisces & Taureans are all great matches for you. Ask others to set you up on blind dates or say “yes” to a double date. If you are dating online, updating your profile and adding new pics is a great idea.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE IN AUGUST – The 9th is a tricky date for you Virgos with Venus squaring Saturn the planet of focus and discipline (currently out of phase in Capricorn your romance zone through early September). You might have to bite your tongue around this date!
Virgo (August 24 – September 23)
Early in the month you might get caught up in some kind of web – either one of your own making or one involving your other half. You could find that your partner confides something of a very personal nature to you and and before you know it, you’re involved. Possibly in a situation you really want nothing to do with.
Luckily for you a New Moon/Solar Eclipse occuring in your hopes and dreams zone on the 12th will help you figure out a solution to any confidentiality issues within your relationship Virgos.
Venus the lover moves into your sign July 11 through August 7. Single? This is the perfect cosmic time to meet someone worth meeting. Cancers and Scorpios are both excellent match ups for you this month, particularly around the time of the Solar Eclipse.
YOUR LOVE ADVICE FOR JULY – You don’t always have to be joined at the hip Virgos. If you’re in a relationship, it’s okay for you to have your secrets and not feel as if you have to share everything with your partner. Some things are best left unsaid.
Swinging singles…Early in June someone may insist on introducing someone to you that they think is just perfect for you, So despite what may have happened on other blind dates, this is one you should check out Virgos. At least make a date for a cup of coffee – how difficult or time consuming can that be? At the very least you my have made a new friend or meet someone you can introduce to someone else. The best scenario is that your friend was right and the match is a match.
Neptune the planet of fantasy and dreams goes out of phase in your solar 7th house of relationships on the 18th where he remains retrograde through November 25. This is definitely a time when you could reconnect with someone from your past – the last person you would even think of reconnecting with. Just try not to go down the same path as you did last time or the same outcome will happen.
For those of you in a committed relationship the retrograde activity of Neptune will definitely sort out some of the issues that may have been plaguing you and your partner for some time. And you shouldn’t be in any type of hurry to do it either. One issue at a time Virgos. Patience is key.
YOUR JUNE LOVE ADVICE – June is going to be quite an interesting month for you Virgos. Filled with memories – some good, some not so good. Coupled Virgos should take advantage of the Full Moon on the 28th in your romance zone and do something special.
Last Month’s Love Horoscope for Virgo
Once Venus the planet of love and relationships moves into Cancer on the 20th, your 11th house of hopes, dreams, wishes and friendship, a friendship could develop into a love affair if you play your cosmic cards right Virgos. Cancers, Capricorns and Taurus are all good matches for you. It can be a bit tricky sometimes going from friend to lover and everyone else involved will put their two cents worth in but if you can work out a way to ‘see how it goes’ and ‘remains friends if it doesn’t work out’, it could be something special.
For those of you in a relationship, the planets are conspiring to make this month a special one for you. A New Moon in your romance and relationship zone on the 15th is just what you need to reboot your relationship Virgos. Let any and all issues fade away and just be happy you’ve someone you care for and vice versa.
YOUR LOVE LIFE ADVICE – The flip side of the New Moon on the 15th is that you may find your love life lacking in some way. That simply means that there is work to be done Virgos.
Love and Relationship Guide
Virgo: The Moody Lover
Moody and thoughtful, Virgos often need to be reminded of their partner’s love. Receiving tokens of affection and verbal reminders of appreciation lifts their spirits and, in turn, makes them generous givers themselves. Virgos are perfectionists, and they look for perfection in everything — relationships included.
LIKE A VIRGIN?
Virgos are called the ’virgins of the zodiac’ because they are symbolized by a virgin with sheaves of grain in her hands. And that’s where the virgin thing ends! Most Virgos have a very healthy libido and are ferocious flirts and chasers – they love the thrill of meeting someone and having that delicious lead up to the big event.
Meeting your match is something Virgos enjoy. Someone who is smart and sexy is who you’re looking for as you tend to be ambitious yourself. Many Virgos meet partners through work or work related connections. Capricorns, Scorpios and Taureans are your best matches partnership wise. They get your need for working hard and playing hard as that’s the way they live too. On the flip side, many Virgos also are happy to remain single – working their way up the corporate ladder and having love affairs along the way to sustain them. Virgos are not necessarily married to the idea of marriage.
Sexually, Virgos can be rather naughty and may enjoy a wide variety of lovers throughout their lives. Virgos often consider sex as a work out session and plan elaborate games for their partner. Meeting at a bar pretending to be someone else from out of town and renting a hotel room for the night – that kind of role play is right up Virgo’s alley. While you play hard when single, when you meet ’the one’ you are extremely loyal and faithful and make a wonderful life partner.
You tend to meet people through work and your coworkers often become your closest friends. The 6th sign of hard work and dedication, you attend after work functions and are often very charity driven. You sign up for breast cancer runs and anything happening at work that is extracurricular. Earth and water signs are your best matches sign wise for friends. Pisces are good friends to have when you have any sort of emotional crisis, while Taureans and Capricorns are your common sense go to signs. When you need a shoulder to cry on, there’s no one better to go to than a Cancer or a Scorpio who will always give you great advice.
While you enjoy being part of a family, you don’t necessarily have to spend a lot of time with them to enjoy them! You are usually very hard working and industrious and sometimes have a side business on weekends which keeps you busy and unavailable to attend everything that’s going on and be there for everyone as readily as you might like. However you do have a very strong sense of service to others and if a sibling or parent is ill or needs a loan or help with anything, you’re the first one to offer it and be there with it ready to pull up your sleeves and help out. You are a great multi-tasker so have no problem being on the phone, unpacking boxes, sending emails and chauffeuring people around – pretty much all at the same time.
TALK TO ME…
You’re more of a ’doer than a talker’ and while Gemini’s who are also ruled by Mercury like to chat away, you simply enjoy getting the job done and moving onto the next task. However when you’re off the clock and relaxing, you like nothing more than chatting it up with work friends and outside work friends. Your best companions are Capricorns, Pisces and Taurus. Your fellow earth signs are loyal and get your rather sarcastic sense of humour, while Pisces are your comfort sign – the ones you can pour your heart out too and vice versa.
WHEN TALKING TO…
Other Virgos – You like to talk about work, money and how to get more done each day. You instantly gel with other Virgos because you enjoy their neatness, punctuality and good manners.
Libra – While they can seem rather flighty and complacent, you do enjoy their sense of style and the fact that they don’t ever seem to get that rattled about things. Or don’t have a need to see things through to the end unlike yourself.
Scorpio –You instantly connect with Scorpios because they too are dedicated and hard workers who like starting a project and completing it without getting sidetracked along the way.
Sagittarius – While the majority of them are way too loud and self-serving for you, some of you will get a huge kick out of their crazy ways and enjoy being on the fringe of a friendship with a Sag.
Capricorn – They too like things nice and tidy – and you appreciate their help and take advantage of it whenever it’s offered. Fellow earth signs, you immediately feel at ease with them and if a friendship develops, it is likely to be a lifelong one.
Aquarius – The one thing you do have in common with this air sign is the fact that you can both be very private and even aloof at times. You don’t take to people straight away and you don’t trust many people either. Aquarians are very smart and you enjoy that about them but you will probably never be really close friends.
Pisces – One of the best matches in the zodiac. You enjoy the way they look at life – which is completely different from the way you look at it. They are creative and spiritual, and teach you a lot about enjoying life and taking time out to smell the roses.
Aries – While you enjoy their energy and their ability to start things, you don’t like the fact that they also prefer to quit mid-way through something and start up something else – which leaves someone like you to come along and clean up the mess!
Taurus – You and Taureans are like 2 earthy peas in a pod – you both like to work hard and play hard. Plus Taureans are great listeners when you want to talk ’off the record’ and know that whatever you say won’t go any further.
Gemini – Ruled by Mercury like yourself, these airy characters have way too much to say and way too little time to get things done. However working together you get the PR/Marketing side and the grunt work done.
Cancer – Definitely a great friend for you and someone who is nurturing and always has time for you. Being a water sign, Cancers are deep and sensitive and can be very aware of when you need a shoulder to lean on or cry on and provide that for you.
Leo – Way too dramatic and needy for the majority of you. They also tend to come in at the last minute and steal your hard working thunder – they are the show stopper sign of the zodiac and you may feel they overshadow you at times.
Also see Zodiac LOVE Compatibility for Virgo.